Conclusion 2: This is so you! You love being in charge and you make your partner feel they can completely trust you. You’re honest and open, and you’re also attentive: you take care not to rush in where angels fear to tread. You enjoy pleasuring your partner, yet you know that pleasure can be purely sensual or it can come about as part of a more profound emotional experience. Maybe you’re already an experienced flogger, or you have the makings of a sensual shaman. You should follow our online course ‘Meditative Flogging as a spiritual practice’. It would be great to have you as a part of our extended family.